Ways to Guarantee Your Husband Won’t Cheat on You?
Before we get started with this article, let me get
something out in the open. We can’t change our husbands and we
certainly cannot control his morals and convictions, but we can
influence our husbands by using a little bit of common sense and Godly
wisdom. So with that said, try these three ways to maybe
guarantee your husband never cheats on you.
1) Stay Connected Emotionally and Spiritually
With Your Husband
Marriage is a relationship that involves two people
in such a way that whatever you do, good or bad affects the other.
If a wife makes her career, friends, money, hobbies, clothes and
other stuff more important than her husband she is disconnecting herself
from him emotionally and spiritually. A husband wants to be the most
important part of his wife’s life. Don’t separate your life from
Emotional adultery starts in the heart and when a
husband feels emotionally distant from his wife it is much easier for
him to see greener grass on the other side of the fence.
It’s no excuse for adultery and it certainly does not make it
right, but reality dictates it will most likely happen in marriages
where there is no “togetherness”.
Now a days, married couples unknowingly separate
themselves from one another by not having their priorities in balance.
In many homes friends, hobbies and careers come first and husband and
wife never spend any quality, intimate time together. If you never do
intimate and fun things together, you will lose the glue that holds the
2) Let Your Husband Be the Man in the Marriage
Many wives don’t realize they are doing it, but
they often reprimand, belittle and boss their husbands around like he is
one of the children. Are you his mother or his wife? He wants to feel
close and intimate with his feminine wife, not his mother, or worse, a
dictator. Make your man feel good about his role as “man of the
house” and “man of the marriage”, because he is the man and
you are the woman. Mixed up roles and feministic attitudes cause
confusion, which creates crumbling of the “one flesh” of marriage.
Wives need to stop micromanaging their husbands and
let them direct the show for a change. Do you realize that it is wives
that need to change? That’s because women walk into marriage with
rose-colored glasses on. They think marriage was created just for them
and their happiness! When wives nag, complain, control or try to change
their husbands they are essentially saying they are not good enough.
What a way to make your man impotent with his wife! If you want a virile
man that only has eyes for you, then treat your man like a man!
Stop treating him like a little boy!
3) Keep Yourself Healthy and Fit
The worse thing a woman can do when married is let
herself go. I don’t care if you are 20, 40 or 65 years old, a woman
can still make herself beautiful. Beauty is relative, meaning, so what
if you are getting older, use it to your advantage to make yourself fit
and good-looking no matter what your age. Many women, after they get
married or reach a certain age stop taking care of their health and
weight and allow themselves to become frumpy and unhealthy.
I know of beautiful women, who are nice and slim,
who are between the ages of 50 and 70 and they look great! They walk
every day, eat right and take care of themselves. And so can you! There
is nothing wrong with getting older, what makes it wrong is not taking
care of your appearance and health. Being
healthy should be a priority in your life. We
absolutely need to care about our health because frankly folks, if we
don’t have our health, nothing else matters in life because we won’t
Get healthy and be together!!
4) Don't Withhold Sex
Often times wives behave as if sex is a burden or something. How demeaning is that? The reason why it feels like a burden is because you are not enjoying yourself, which is your own fault. Communication is a must in the bedroom if you want to have a pleasurable sex life. For a healthy man, he needs sex once a day. Other men maybe twice a week, and others still, depending on how old they are a couple of times a month. Ladies, if your man has needs you should be providing those needs, so your husband will not want to stray from the marriage. Now, I'm not saying that will happen just because you deny them sex but it makes temptation more prevalent.
Seriously ladies, we are managers of our marriage by being the loving wife to our husband. HELPMEET does not mean HELPNOT. The minute we begin withholding ourselves from our man in any way is when he begins to look elsewhere for emotional, physical, mental, and sexual companionship. Take care of your man, and he will take care of you!!!
Keep intimacy alive in your marriage, no matter
what age you are: Love, Communication and Intimacy in Marriage: http://youtu.be/6QFevQS-Hc4
The Marriage Healing Ministry: http://www.heavenministries.com