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Mental and Physical Disorders Naturally
Journey on the Roads Less Traveled
Friends. I am happy to let you know that we have published our
latest book Sugar
Overload Syndrome - Healing Mental and Physical Disorders,
Naturally. This books covers a lot of areas of health
such as ADHD, bipolar disorder, alcoholism and hypoglycemia,
depression, and codependency. Inside this book you will learn
how diet is linked to certain health conditions and the
importance of eating a whole foods diet, cleansing for optimal
health, and anti-aging treatments. I have even devoted several
chapters to some of my favorite recipes. To find out more about
this book, click
here. You can preview all the chapters and introduction, up
to page 11!
I've had several readers tell me they started working on the principles of the "love dare" from the hit movie, Fireproof for their marriage and it has improved! But then, after some time, they stopped working the "love dare" principles and they fell back into their old ways again. I think I know why this is happening.
I think they are not making the love dare principles a priority in their marriage. We absolutely must make these divine principles a priority in our marriage, before anything else. Because God is the Architect of marriage, His designs must come first in our marriage, above everything else. So then make "love dare" a first priority in your marriage and apply the principles every single day. I dare you to love. This movie is now available on DVD.
What's the big
deal about St. Valentine's Day? Well it is the day of love, romance and
more love. What about married couples? I mean, married couples can
still sizzle and dazzle each other even if they have been married, five,
ten or twenty years, right? So lets start loving more!
Men, you first,
have some fun and impress your wife with your love!
next. Valentines Day is for married lovers too. It doesn’t matter how
long you have been married; it is absolutely imperative that you keep your
marriage upbeat, romantic, and intimate.
Marriage Question: Hello Angie! I really loved reading your articles. I'm also a victim caught in the middle of this situation and I want to share it with you. I'm also a Christian from Fiji Islands, 23 years of age & I'm having a relationship with this 35 yr old guy who is a divorcee. I don't know what to do and I'm scared if I'm doing the right thing or not. I don't know what to do. He's very serious about our relationship and he is wanting to marry me sometime soon. We just started dating 2 months ago...I would like your opinion in this matter....Looking forward to what you think about us. I'm willing to accept what is better for us both and our ending which is much more important.......God Bless.
God takes marriage very seriously and that means that both people need to have commitment in their heart BEFORE they ever get married. I think you should wait until God blesses you with the man that is just right for you, who will take marriage seriously and with more commitment. A man that will treat you well, and respect you and your position in the household. I firmly believe it is best to always BE FRIENDS FIRST and get to know someone and their parents before even THINKING about rushing into something that you may regret later on down the road. But this is my opinion. I think you asked me because you already knew what my answer was going to be. May you wait on the Lord in patience and God will bless you with the man of your dreams someday. Angie
Is it old fashioned to walk up to a young women’s
home, that you would like to get to know, meet her parents and be asked to
come in to play scrabble or monopoly with her family?
If you would rather be doing something else with her, than you
shouldn’t be there at all. If a Christian man truly wants to get to know
a woman for the prospect of possible marriage, does he need to have sex
“You are not your own; you were bought at a price.
Therefore honor God with your body”. (1 Corinthians 6:20)
Is it old fashioned to remain pure until you’re
married to the man or woman you have learned to love through the
courtship process? Does it feel wrong to respect and value the person
you’re going to marry by making sure they do not sin against their own
body? Having sex before marriage is not what God intended for Christians.
“Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man
commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his
own body”. (1 Corinthians 6:18-20
Why are Christians falling along the wayside,
disregarding moral character and values to give in to their sexual lusts
and desires? It is because of peer pressure – the world is pressuring
young people to have sex – enabling them to have sex before marriage.
The world scoffs at God’s principles and rebellion has set in.
Understand that what is against the teachings of Christ for the Christian is
rebellious in nature.
They said to you, “In the last times there will be
scoffers who will follow their own ungodly desires.” These are the men
who divide you, who follow mere natural instincts and do not have the
Spirit. But you, dear friends, build yourselves up in your most holy faith
and pray in the Holy Spirit. Keep yourselves in God’s love as you wait
for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ to bring you to eternal life”.
Churches, ministries, leaders, teachers, and parents
should be offering solutions to the sexual quandary of dating that is
corrupting the culture of society. There is so much sexual/lust pollution
filtering through all the different forms of media today that the practice
of having sexual relations (dating) at the age of fourteen seems almost
normal. Teenagers are getting pregnant at the age of twelve!
What about the safe and honorable practice of
courtship? As a Christian young woman today, wouldn’t you rather be
respected and valued for the person God made you to be than just another
body to have sex with? When we take away Christ’s principles of love,
and replace them with lustful feelings of desire, it confuses people into
believing that it’s ok to sexually and emotionally abuse one another
through the dating process. Society has confused sex and lust with love!
But that’s not love – you have been deceived!
Courtship does not have the trappings of sex
associated with it. When a man courts a woman it is because he wants to
get to know her for who she is – not for what she can give him.
He is already prepared to NOT have sex with her. He wants to
respect and value her for the woman God created her to be. He wants to get
to know her better because his future depends on it. There is nothing old
fashioned about courtship – it is how God intended it to be.
It is God’s will that you should be sanctified:
that you should avoid sexual immorality”.
In the dating relationship a young man or woman is
trapped into having sex! In fact, it is a given they will have sex.
They are literally trapped. Its like two spiders stuck in the web and they
can’t get out until they finally give up and give in. The trap is the
pressure of society pushing them into having sex.
Courtship involves principled actions of love. It does not involve sexual relations but teaches how to respect, honor, and commit to one another for the preparation of marriage. In essence courtship is a word that has been applied to describe the biblical basis for the relationship leading up to marriage and is found in the bible through Mary and Joseph. Not only did Mary and Joseph court one another they were betrothed (engaged) for several years before they actually got married! During the betrothal there is no physical contact until the wedding; betrothal is the groundwork for spiritual and emotional maturing and caring for one another on the Christ-like principles of love.
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