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Heaven Ministries
February 2006
Volume 4 Issue 28

Marriage Alive! Newsletter

Happy Valentines Day--
Flirting With
Your Spouse?

New Book Release:

Love The Man You Married

Love The Man You Married involves ALL THE AREAS in marriage that we need to know and understand and apply for a successful marriage. This book is a most reliable resource for married couples.

It is my hope that all couples find and begin to utilize the biblical truths for their marriage by reading and studying this book.

Buy Love The Man You Married

God made man to be the protector of women. Men love to do it, they want to do it, and they feel like a man when we let them do it! But we aren't letting our husbands protect us!! How come? Why is this happening?

Happy Valentines Day -

Flirting With Your Spouse?

So what's the big deal about St. Valentine's Day? Well it is the day of love, romance and flirting! What about married couples? I mean, married couples can still sizzle and dazzle each other even if they have been married, five, ten or twenty years, right? So lets start flirting.

Men, you first, have some fun and impress your wife with your love!

1. Set the ambiance and mood of the bedroom by turning off all the lights except one red light bulb in a corner lamp. Sit down on the bed and just stare into your wife's eyes. You won't be able to do this without laughing because your wife will want to know why you are behaving so strange. When she asks, tell her that you are flirting with her because you love her and miss giving her attention like you used to. She'll love that.

2. Give her your smiling and laughing attention for the rest of the evening. Ask her how her day went. Get interested in your wife and what she has to say. Nothing makes a woman feel good about her self more than when her man is genuinely interested in her. Lock your gaze with her when you are listening to her talk. When she is done talking, kiss her lightly on the lips.

3. Prepare ahead of time something homemade and tasty to eat, like a chocolate fondue or a chocolate mousse pie. You can do this, if you put your mind to it. Homemade treats are so much more enjoyable and romantic then store bought. But if you really can't cook, at least buy something chocolaty, that is if your wife likes chocolate.

4. Hug and touch your wife whenever you think of it. Don't wait until you want sex, hug her and give her a back rub. Bring out the homemade pie and cut your wife a piece. Watch her as she gobbles down your delicious pie.

5. Hide an expensive box of chocolates or chocolate bunny under your wife's pillow. After sex talk some more. Don't just roll over and go to sleep.

Do you ever flirt with your husband? Valentines Day is not just for lovers but for married lovers too. I don't care how long you have been married; it is absolutely imperative that you keep your marriage upbeat, romantic, and hot!

1. If you normally don't wear your hair up, then put it up in a sexy bun and put on some red lipstick and greet him at the door in something skimpy. Give him a long sensual kiss right before you sit down to eat his favorite home cooked meal. He might ask you what all this is for. Tell him that you miss flirting with him. He'll like that.

2. Have your own Valentines chocolate hunt. Hide individual wrapped chocolates for your husband in your lingerie drawer. Give your husband little hints and clues about where the candy is without actually telling him. Have the candy hidden in a pair of new skimpy, lacy, sheer panties.

3. Put on a brand new slinky nightgown and sit down on the bed acting as if you only want to talk. Let one of the straps drape down on your arm. Make sure you are wearing his favorite perfume and your hair is tidy and combed. Start reading your favorite book. Glance up at him every once in while and give him a big smile. Continue playing hard to get for a while and watch what happens.

4. Buy some new red silk sheets, and have the bed drawn back and ready for love. Have only one candle lit. Hide a box of expensive chocolates under his pillow.
Enjoy loving the man you married!

Perseverance For Marriage

Relationships are an important aspect of our life, especially the relationship we have with our spouse. This is precisely why God has given us a most special design for applying into marriage. God's purpose and plan for us has no flaws and never changes like the culture of society does.

What do you see going on in the world with marriages of today? The divorce rate is going up and up, and the culture is becoming more and more perverted. What do you think is going to happen if people continue to follow what they see in the world as right for their marriage rather than follow what was meant to be for marriage?

I do know that at times it is difficult to follow God's plan for us, and it seems like we are the only marriage with trials and tribulations, but all relationships experience problems from time to time. Unfortunately, most of the quandaries of marriage never get resolved properly because couples just don't have the determination to fix the marriage.

No doubt about it, marriage can sometimes be difficult and demanding but we should focus on what is important to us. God actually wants us to push ourselves on even through the heartaches and sufferings of marriage, as well as the good times. It creates in us better people, and it makes us stronger marriage partners, and it gives us the faith we need to lead our marriage under the convictions of God's design.

Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance, perseverance, character; and character, hope.
Roman's 5:3,4

Don't let your marriage fall through the sand. It is never too late to start building your marriage upon the foundations of God's design. Your house can be built upon the rock if you persevere onward through your sufferings, and do not falter, for you will be rewarded with a pleasurable marriage.